[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”32714″ img_size=”medium”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_custom_heading text=”LET’S SET THE SCENE – RULES OF BEHAVIOR” font_container=”tag:h2|text_align:left|color:%23011eaa” use_theme_fonts=”yes”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”17942″ img_size=”full”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1670690849980{margin-right: 1% !important;margin-left: 1% !important;}”][vc_column width=”2\/3″ css=”.vc_custom_1675355203148{padding-right: 2% !important;padding-left: 2% !important;}”][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1682025283927{margin-right: 2% !important;margin-left: 1% !important;padding-top: 7% !important;padding-right: 2% !important;padding-bottom: 5% !important;padding-left: 2% !important;}”]<\/p>\n
Rules of behavior<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0will allow us to successfully establish general<\/strong> or specific<\/strong> rules.<\/p>\n Once again, it is important to collaborate: sit down with your child and together agree upon the rules that we \u00a0ALL<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0need (parents and children). That way\u00a0EVERYONE<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0takes ownership and feel accountable.<\/p>\n [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”1\/3″][vc_single_image image=”32856″ img_size=”medium” css=”.vc_custom_1675546865830{margin-top: 2% !important;margin-right: 2% !important;margin-bottom: 2% !important;margin-left: 2% !important;}”][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column] What do we need to do in order to make sure that…<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column] The keyword is\u00a0COOPERATION!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Setting the rules in cooperation allows the children to respect them (since they have participated in setting them up).[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column] ‘Do you remember what we said about making meals go well?'[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”1\/3″ css=”.vc_custom_1675369840689{margin-top: 3% !important;padding-top: 3% !important;background-color: #efefef !important;}”][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1682025729666{margin-top: 2% !important;margin-right: 2% !important;margin-left: 1% !important;padding-top: 8% !important;padding-right: 2% !important;padding-bottom: 7% !important;padding-left: 2% !important;}”]3 -Everyone write down their needs in a separate petal.[\/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=”32861″ img_size=”large” alignment=”center” css=”.vc_custom_1676326652790{margin-right: 2% !important;margin-left: 2% !important;padding-top: 2% !important;padding-bottom: 2% !important;}”][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1682025804982{margin-top: 3% !important;margin-right: 2% !important;margin-left: 1% !important;padding-top: 9% !important;padding-right: 2% !important;padding-bottom: 7% !important;padding-left: 2% !important;}”]6 – Children (and teenagers!) will feel engaged and part of the\u00a0<\/strong>process.<\/b><\/p>\n ‘I know that parents both heard and respected me when I said that I wanted shorter meal time.'[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1682025890217{margin-right: 3% !important;margin-left: 3% !important;padding-top: 5% !important;padding-right: 2% !important;padding-bottom: 1% !important;padding-left: 2% !important;}”]<\/p>\n If a child fails to cooperate<\/strong> with the rules that have been set, offer to review them with the child: “I see that you no longer agree with this rule of behavior: let’s stick with it for now and we can revisit it at the end of the week.”<\/p>\n [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1\/2″ css=”.vc_custom_1676567629489{margin-left: 5% !important;}”][vc_single_image image=”33007″ img_size=”large” alignment=”center” css=”.vc_custom_1676479762858{margin-top: 5% !important;margin-left: 1% !important;}”][\/vc_column][vc_column width=”1\/2″][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1682025923967{padding-top: 5% !important;padding-right: 5% !important;padding-bottom: 5% !important;padding-left: 5% !important;}”]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Together establish the rules of behavior<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Ask questions\u00a0to encourage the child to refer back to the flower!<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1676566383270{margin-right: 2% !important;margin-left: 2% !important;background-color: #011eaa !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1676566591349{padding-top: 5% !important;padding-right: 5% !important;padding-bottom: 1% !important;padding-left: 2% !important;}” el_class=”color-white”]<\/p>\n [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1676566316431{margin-right: 2% !important;margin-left: 4% !important;}”][vc_column width=”1\/2″][vc_column_text css=”.vc_custom_1691960571000{padding-top: 5% !important;padding-right: 5% !important;padding-bottom: 5% !important;padding-left: 2% !important;}”]<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Positive discipline, what is it?<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n
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