{"id":26596,"date":"2022-12-10T11:15:47","date_gmt":"2022-12-10T16:15:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/edyka.org\/?p=26596"},"modified":"2023-08-23T10:14:20","modified_gmt":"2023-08-23T14:14:20","slug":"positive-discipline-what-is-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/edyka.org\/en\/positive-discipline-what-is-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Positive discipline, what is it ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=&#8221;26549&#8243; img_size=&#8221;Medium&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_custom_heading text=&#8221;EDUCATING WITH KINDNESS AND FIRMNESS&#8221; font_container=&#8221;tag:h2|text_align:left|color:%23011eaa&#8221; use_theme_fonts=&#8221;yes&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=&#8221;17942&#8243; img_size=&#8221;full&#8221;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1670689674039{margin-right: 1% !important;margin-left: 1% !important;}&#8221;][vc_column css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1670689128162{background-color: #efefef !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1681999020335{margin-right: 1% !important;margin-left: 1% !important;padding-top: 5% !important;padding-bottom: 5% !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We will give you some tools related to\u00a0<strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">Positive<\/span><\/strong> <strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">Discipline <\/span><\/strong> which can help you in your daily life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Positive Discipline has a special place in the positive parenting movement.<br \/>\nIn fact,\u00a0this educational pedagogy is based on<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">Kindness \u00a0 \u00a0 AND \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">Firmness<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is an approach that is<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">neither permissive nor punitive<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">but which will allow the child to develop<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">self-discipline, a sense of responsibility<\/span><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">,\u00a0<span style=\"caret-color: #011eaa;\">independence<\/span>\u00a0and respect.<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column]<div class=\"ult-spacer spacer-69f38bf7d5293\" data-id=\"69f38bf7d5293\" data-height=\"10\" data-height-mobile=\"10\" data-height-tab=\"10\" data-height-tab-portrait=\"\" data-height-mobile-landscape=\"\" style=\"clear:both;display:block;\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1675359313013{margin-top: 3% !important;padding-top: 9% !important;padding-right: 5% !important;padding-bottom: 1% !important;padding-left: 5% !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><b><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">FIRMNESS<\/span><\/strong><\/b><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1681999057833{padding-top: 2% !important;padding-right: 2% !important;padding-bottom: 3% !important;padding-left: 4% !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">It is respecting<\/span><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">the structure, <\/span><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">oneself, <\/span><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">and the situation.<\/span><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Not everything should be permitted !<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Parents and educators should establish rules (and routines) that will allow the child to develop, and grow in a secure environment.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Children\u00a0<strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">need structure<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0in order to develop to grow up in a safe environment, to become responsible, to be respectful&#8230;[\/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=&#8221;26547&#8243; 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text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #011eaa;\">Published articles<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let&#8217;s set the scene! <\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/edyka.org\/en\/lets-set-the-scene-1-structure-or-pace\/\"><strong>Structure or pace<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/edyka.org\/en\/rules_behavior\/\"><strong>Rules of behavior<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/edyka.org\/en\/questions-that-make-a-difference\/\"><strong>Questions that make a difference!<\/strong><\/a>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column]<div class=\"ult-spacer spacer-69f38bf7d535f\" data-id=\"69f38bf7d535f\" data-height=\"10\" data-height-mobile=\"10\" data-height-tab=\"10\" data-height-tab-portrait=\"\" data-height-mobile-landscape=\"\" style=\"clear:both;display:block;\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1670862276660{padding-left: 2% !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h4><strong><span style=\"color: #33cc00;\">Author: Isabelle de Chateauvieux<\/span> <\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=&#8221;26538&#8243; 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